Tuesday, December 23, 2014


My two older boys have gotten along really well for the most part.  I know it's unusual and I know quarreling children is a source of stress and exhaustion for other parents.  So rather than bragging about it, I willingly admit I'm very fortunate.  It's a blessing that I can take NO credit for.  They are four years a part, their personalities are vastly different, and they share quite a few common interests, so they enjoy playing together.  Plus Noah is (used to be) very patient and Sam is very mature.  So they are a brotherly match made in heaven.

However, Noah has started getting annoyed with Sam in the last few months.  It's really sad because they used to have so much fun together.  Yesterday I got tired of it.  They'll be spending a lot of time together over the Christmas break, which helps them get along better.  And I wanted to make sure they did have a chance to re-connect right away.  So I decided to start the Christmas break off by having Noah make a list of all the things he loves about Sam.  He ended up with a list of 63 things (he had to add a few extra for non-compliance at first).  He had to read this list to Sam while holding both of Sam's hands.  He was not thrilled at first, but he did it and they've had a great day together, as expected.

His list is so funny.  He describes Sam with perfect detail.  But this list tells just as much about Noah as it does Sam. 

63 Things I Love About Sam:
  1. He's funny
  2. He's fun (occasionally)
  3. He's adopted like me
  4. He's great at Legos
  5. He goes birding (when he's not annoying and when he actually likes the birds we see)
  6. He's nice
  7. He's cute (that's what you say)
  8. He's good at having good boundaries with me, other people, and our family
  9. He is easy to talk to 
  10. He is responsible
  11. He isn't mean
  12. He isn't a person who would make fun of you for your mistakes
  13. He really doesn't care about what you do to make a fool of yourself and he doesn't care when you accidentally make a mistake
  14. He is a good reader
  15. He is a good writer
  16. He is good at math
  17. He is a good learner
  18. He is funny
  19. He is kind
  20. He is patient
  21. He likes what I like
  22. His birth family likes me
  23. He does lots of service
  24. He's helpful
  25. He's a good eater
  26. He's good at Legos
  27. He doesn't make fun of me
  28. He likes you for what you are
  29. He doesn't care how you look
  30. He's awesome
  31. He's a artist
  32. He's kind and nice
  33. He likes animals
  34. He's good at using binoculars
  35. He's smart
  36. He's creative
  37. He's good at drawing
  38. He's good at painting
  39. He's a safe person
  40. He's a good brother
  41. He's friendly
  42. He's a person with integrity
  43. He's a good babysitter (that sucks for me)
  44. He's cool
  45. He's responsible
  46. He's good with tools
  47. He's easy to talk with
  48. He would make a good police
  49. He cares about me
  50. He wants me to accomplish my goals
  51. He's helpful
  52. He's swag
  53. He's loving
  54. He's good at sharing
  55. He's fun to hang out with
  56. He's more responsible than me
  57. He has a lot of friends
  58. He's easy to make friends with
  59. He's good at skateboarding
  60. He's good at biking
  61. He's good at coming up with lies
  62. He's a good listener
  63. He's good at everything


J said...

So awesome!! I just love Noah!

R said...

Yes, this says a lot about both of the boys. Love doing so much with them!